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We are all products of our life experiences, and it could not have interpreted reality from the integration of all the possible nuances of the personality of each.

If you know someone who made use of a mediation service will talk about her experience with mediation and given center and that will be added to ours. But each person is separated from other specific person, so the feelings can be very different for different people in one center of mediation.

The first step to manage our separation by this means is to locate a mediation center, and regional institutions will give us accurate information. The second attempt to overcome the resistance of a spouse if unaware of this possibility or is reluctant, as an alternative to going to court. And the third contact the mediation center, knowing that we are going to ask a commitment to stop any action to arrange removal by a court.

As often think nothing seriously considers separation and assume it as such is most valuable to share. In many couples is an impossible love, an apartment, a car or children in common.

A separation is a constellation of problems, whose resolution brings people the worst and the best thing within. And the more resources we mobilize, the better result for its own interests and those of their children.

Should not victimize, withdraw into themselves and complaining about how badly or unfairly treated us the other ... because the worst is yet to come and should anticipate problems.

After separation

Mediation has the powerful feature of preparing responsible for the separation, the couple themselves, to address new situations or formerly made jointly or consensus. Addressing the other rental housing, relocation, the appropriations, debt, the request for help from family and friends, education of children, misunderstanding of others, loneliness...

Broken family now faces two rents, the costs of two cars, two refrigerators, two electric and water. They must also manage absences before the children through babysitting and stress about it because it will not be shared.

And depending on the side of falling food pension or compensation, one of the former spouses must bear extra burdens to make it lose its previous status, or could even lead to poverty and depression.

This entire gloomy picture must be dealt with trained personal skills and generalizable. The life experiences will help everyone to cope as best breaking personal situation and experience of mediation wants to be one of them. This is to bring out resources and attitudes, go to represent an active, future-oriented commitment and solutions.